I have Been trying hard. I still cant get pregnant!

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Postby hartford on Thu May 12, 2005 3:15 pm

i found this on msn.com...

Q.I’m having trouble conceiving. What can my husband and I do before resorting to expensive treatments?

A. “Healthy bodies allow you to have a baby, and healthy bodies produce healthy babies,” says Jill Blakeway, a licensed acupuncturist and fertility specialist based in New York City. “It’s really not rocket science.”

Moms-to-be should exercise in moderation to reduce stress and achieve a comfortable body weight. Eat a lot of organic fruits and vegetables and other healthy foods. “We can be pretty sure that the collective burden of all the toxins and chemicals we take in on a regular basis stresses our reproductive cycle,” Blakeway explains.

Holistic solutions can be an excellent, affordable option. And remember, getting pregnant is a team effort. Women and men alike can give fertility a strong head start by minding the following:

Avoid alcohol
Avoid coffee
Eat healthy, unprocessed foods
Reduce stress
Don’t smoke
Don’t use marijuana or other drugs
Take multivitamins
Have sex!
Many factors will come into play—age, body weight, medical history—but there are several avenues of treatment to pursue. Not all are expensive, and you might even get some assistance from your insurance carrier.

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a fertility spell

Postby aura on Fri May 20, 2005 9:07 pm

You could try to sleep with a sprig of rosemary under your bed, eat half a water melon everyday or buy a baby’s bonnet on a full moon.

or

take an egg and paint the symbol of a pregnant woman on to it with green food dye. Then bury it in a pot scattering the top soil with a handful of grass seed and repeat these words

Hidden deep in an earth filled pot

Left to stand where the sun is hot

An egg beneath the soil below

A child within me starts to grow

Give the pot a good watering everyday and wait for the results. Remember, all those readers out there that want to conceive, March is a very fertile month and an excellent time to start working your magic.

Hope this is alright.

:)

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Re: I have Been trying hard. I still cant get pregnant!HELP?

Postby Guest on Tue May 24, 2005 11:43 pm

jessica1234 wrote:My name is jessica I am from the U.S.A.... My other and I have been trying to conceive a baby for quit a while now but cant seem to do it.. Is there any advice any body can give us on how to make it more succesful????Does the pillow underneath you really work or not?? what positions have you found most succesfull?? comments would be helpful...Thanx :lol:
After Most women have sex they automaticaly will clean them self, and thats great however maybe you should wait put your legs in the air while the seaman is still in you give it time in you before you stand up makeing it harder to go up in the uterous.

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Postby guest44 on Thu Jun 16, 2005 11:03 am

what about using a diva cup? have sex then slip a diva cup in and go to sleep. it will stop the sperm escaping and with the added measure of a pillow underneath you they should find the egg easy.

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Re: I have Been trying hard. I still cant get pregnant!HELP?

Postby bevvy40 on Thu Jun 16, 2005 5:30 pm

jessica1234 wrote:My name is jessica I am from the U.S.A.... My other and I have been trying to conceive a baby for quit a while now but cant seem to do it.. Is there any advice any body can give us on how to make it more succesful????Does the pillow underneath you really work or not?? what positions have you found most succesfull?? comments would be helpful...Thanx :lol:
hi jessica .. knew someone who tried for 15 years to have a child ,when they told me they are going to give up trying and to forget about parenting , they conceived within the year!! so suggest you can try this.. wake up one day and decide to do somthing different maybe a short break away somewhere or anything that while fill your mind up with ,take a short learning course,something that gets your mind buzzing being fixated on conceiving just does not work, the brain is a funny thing, things happened when you dont control it , although its seems weird thing to do as youre desperate to be pregnant just try for two months ...,also your husband may find it mechanical and feel stressed because nothing happens (i dont mean it in any way disrespectfully)although he wants to make you happy, pressure is a downfall ..be boyfriend and girlfriend for a while..., i must say ive been married 15 years i have three girls youngest is 8 she wasnt planned but the time i fell was when me and my husband was planning to move to another location ,i was looking forward to having a small break before having a third child but it wasn't to be ,dont get me wrong we were happy that i was pregnant like i say planning doesnt work!! GOOD LUCK!! from bevvy UK. :D :D

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Postby joanna3535 on Thu Jun 16, 2005 10:01 pm

have you tried an ovulation kit?

mp
 

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Postby mp on Sat Jun 25, 2005 3:09 am

why do doctors say it takes up to

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Postby dewdrop on Mon Jun 27, 2005 6:43 pm

hi, i have been dealing wih infertility for 2 years now. had been diagnosed with pco, so i started with metformin. now i take 1500mg a day. i did my 1st cyccle of clomid this month 100mg- but i didnt ovulate, i am wirried now. will i never ovulate? will i be never able to bear a child? please help me..

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Why cant i get pregnant

Postby Valeria on Wed Jun 29, 2005 6:09 am

me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months im only 16 and we have been trying to get me pregnant and i cant.I told my mom that i think i cant get pregnant. My mom is fine with me getting pregnant.

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Re: Why cant i get pregnant

Postby Guest on Wed Jun 29, 2005 5:01 pm

Valeria wrote:me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months im only 16 and we have been trying to get me pregnant and i cant.I told my mom that i think i cant get pregnant. My mom is fine with me getting pregnant.


Sorry did you just say that you are 16 and are trying for a baby after only 6 months of dating your boyfriend?

Are you INSANE? Do you and your fella have a home (of your own) together? Have you saved enough money to provide for your family? Do you have a job? Have you been together long enough to really know & love each other?

If you have answered 'No' to any of these questions then don't have a baby, its NOT fair! and there are too many scroungers around already making life too tough for those of us who really deserve it.

If you answered yes to all of the above then good luck and well done to have achieved all of this at only 16 (still a childs age)

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having trouble

Postby linda nason on Wed Jun 29, 2005 5:49 pm

hi, im 21 and i have been married for almost three years now. I have a daughter who is 19 months and it only took two months to try. And let me tell you, the morning sickness was horrible. She came out perfect. I have had three miscarrages in the past year and I dont know what to do anymore. My doctor tested me and said all was fine. I really want to have another baby. Not just for me but so that my daughter can have someone to play with. I am looking for an answer that will keep me happy again and not worry.

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Re: Why cant i get pregnant

Postby Ladyfull on Fri Jul 01, 2005 11:58 am

Valeria wrote:me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months im only 16 and we have been trying to get me pregnant and i cant.I told my mom that i think i cant get pregnant. My mom is fine with me getting pregnant.


troll?

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Postby Ladyfull on Fri Jul 01, 2005 11:58 am

why does it keep saying guest?

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Postby SugaMaMa on Sun Jul 03, 2005 2:58 am

Me and my boyfriend have been with each other for 2 years now, we have sex very often at least once a day. We have been trying to get pregnant for a long time. We haven't been to a doctor, no drugs/medications and I was wondering if I had a likier chance of getting pregnant taking any. I am a 215lb female, I was wondering if maybe that was the case. Does being healthy have a lot to do with it, or not? I just want a baby really really bad. Please Help!

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Postby bagwoman on Sun Jul 03, 2005 4:21 pm

Ladyfull wrote:
Pixie wrote:go to www.goddessmumz.com for lots of advice and support on ttc. seriously, there are loadsa preggy woman there atm!! the babydust is rife ;)


oh wow, thank you for this! what a site!!


NO S***! this is an awsome site

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