Older men

[Curly Neem]

Ant thoughts anyone, I know its ok for celebs to link up with older men to boost their ratings, Penny Lancaster Rod Stewart, Rachel Hunter, ect ect but I have been dating a man 18 years older than myself, Im 19 no I am not hung up over the father figure phsycology, but I keep getting constant greif from friends and family how do I deal with this I think he's great good in bed and fun, the relationship may not go anywhere but why should I stop because I don't conform has anyone else come across the same thing

[jj]

Hi there, I wouldn't worry what anyone else thinks at the end of the day you and your man are all that matters. My husband is 13 years older than me and I couldn't have wished for a better partner and father to our children. Just carry on and what will be will be just enjoyed what you have now. Good luck. ( whose to say if you had met a fella afew years older than you they'd have been happy with that ) its your choice.

[Jim]

Enjoy, Curly. For a young girl to have the benefit of a more mature man as a lover is a great gift and help to her in discovering herself. Much better than a silly, fumbling, blustering, over-(undeservedly) 'confident' boy of her own age.
Similarly, young boys of 19 would find a better start to adult life with a mature 30's to 40's woman than with a silly, reluctant, derisive and so(undesrvedly) 'superior' girl of the same age.

[Guest]

Ant thoughts anyone, I know its ok for celebs to link up with older men to boost their ratings, Penny Lancaster Rod Stewart, Rachel Hunter, ect ect but I have been dating a man 18 years older than myself, Im 19 no I am not hung up over the father figure phsycology, but I keep getting constant greif from friends and family how do I deal with this I think he's great good in bed and fun, the relationship may not go anywhere but why should I stop because I don't conform has anyone else come across the same thing

It's mostly because they are loaded. I mean if I saw an old man on the street I wouldn't look twice. But when you know they have money and a reputation, that's what swings it. Shallow but true.

[Guest]

Years back when I was 20, had a male friend who was 40.
He has a daughter with exact same birthday, born same hospital,
everything. Other than that extra strange situation when we'd
occasionally run across each other in day to day things, it was a good
thing that went on well for about a year and half until
his work transferred him to another state on other side of country.
Was more of a casual type thing anyway, never exclusive,
just sometimes went out together and enjoyed each-others company.

[Alf Huckham]

neat

[Anna22]

I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 16 years older than me and I couldn't be happier, we've been together for 2 years and now live together, don't worry about what people think so long as you're happy! Older men (in my experience) are alot more mature, the father of my daughter is the same age as me and he left me as soon as I fell pregnant and I've never heard from him since, that's one of the reasons I'd never go out with a guy my own age again, I'm not saying all younger men are like that but I prefer my older man as he's a lot better than my ex!!

[Guest]

I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 16 years older than me and I couldn't be happier, we've been together for 2 years and now live together, don't worry about what people think so long as you're happy! Older men (in my experience) are alot more mature, the father of my daughter is the same age as me and he left me as soon as I fell pregnant and I've never heard from him since, that's one of the reasons I'd never go out with a guy my own age again, I'm not saying all younger men are like that but I prefer my older man as he's a lot better than my ex!!

That happened to me, but I found my soulmate who is the same age as me and he loves me and my baby more than anything. Who needs a loser when you can have a winner.

[Wise Michael]

Congratulations to the OP.

The older man will appreciate your young beauteous curves, perfcet skin, and long hair. As a Christian, I find some of my fellow men unduly ashamed of their natural attraction to the younger female, even when God has ordained such attractions as right and natural throughout history.

When you enter your middle years, be sure to remember the wisdom you have attained in youth, and do not sink into judgmentalism about your own husband's attraction to very young women.

[sm68]

if you love him, you love him! age doesn't matter

[SassySally24]

I was dating somone who was 15 years my senior and i got greif, you just have to ignore it.

Also i know how great it is to date older men, they are mature in ever way

xx

[Guest]

Congratulations to the OP.

The older man will appreciate your young beauteous curves, perfcet skin, and long hair. As a Christian, I find some of my fellow men unduly ashamed of their natural attraction to the younger female, even when God has ordained such attractions as right and natural throughout history.

When you enter your middle years, be sure to remember the wisdom you have attained in youth, and do not sink into judgmentalism about your own husband's attraction to very young women.

Ah, Wise Michael. That was perfect! I'm sure these lovely ladies will definitely NOT remember all that youthful wisdom.