I want other men to screw my wife...how common is

[seeking very sexual lady]

I too often find it very sexual for my significant other wife, to have sex with other men, however I am now single and want to be up front about this, but when you even mention it to a girl you are trying to be serious with, they get turned off, and leave. My question is where are all the women who would love to have her man, let her have sex with whomever she wanted

Seeking an extremely premisicous women in NY

[mr bob]

well guy funny you ask that. i was just sitting here thinking of screwing your wife,i think of screwing her alot.now you feel better?

[Rhodie]

Actually my wife and i did this for about a decade.
I have no idea why i desired this. Maybe the submissive
thing mentioned above. Anyway we quit about 12 years ago.
We have been married 32 years and things seem great.
My only advise is if i had it to do over i would not.
It tends to make you feel bad about yourself as time goes
on.

good luck

I am very interested in a couple of things... Was the decision to stop mutual? Was she happy to stop? How often did you guys do it? Did she feel bad about herself?

[jmauver]

Like many here, I also have the fantasy of my wife having sex with another man while I watch/participate. In the other hand I am an extremely jealous husband, even a flirt could spark a week of row between us. The thing is I love to see her having sexual pleasure, that the more pleasure she feels the more I feel too. She is quite shy but I am sure that she would go with me in this fantasy as she hinted me that she would like to see another woman having sex with us at the same time. She knows that I enjoy listening her sexual life with her ex-boyfriends from her past. On my mind there are some thoughts like what if she get more than sex with the other guy, what if she starts dating him without my knowledge, what if our marriage complicity ends...
These are my fears, that's why I think if I would go for it, it would be with someone completely strange, that you will never see again. I believe that many, many men have this fantasy, although a large proportion would not admit it. Also I believe many share the same fears I have but If they were given assurance that it would not affect their marriage/relationship, they would not hesitate to at least try it.
Sorry for my bad english!

[Dale]

My wife has been having sex with other guys ever since we got married and I love it, I can't get enough of watching my beautiful wife being taken by other guys, I sometimes join in, but more often than not I just watch as they pleasure her hour after hour. we are both into her having more than one guy at a time, and sometimes even having another woman join in, I suppose you could say we are the ultimate liberated couple, but I just get real turned on by sharing her wonderful body.

[wvwildeyed]

i to have often wondered how many men liked their wife or girlfriend to have sex with someone other than their hubby. i love the idea myself and my wife has f*cked 22 or 23 other guys during our marriage...i hope it never ends

[Guest]

We have been married for 8 years, & shortly after our daughter was born 6 years ago I began fantasising about my wife giving sex to other guys & it was such a turn on for me that it became almost my only fantasy.
I started talking to her about it during sex & it got us both really hot, & after a year or so of constant pleading & pressure, she agreed to let it happen so we contacted a guy through the net & met him at a motel & we both had sex with her & she was ok with it...even enjoyed it despite nerves.
That let the genie out of the bottle for me & it became a fixation, more accurately an obsession, to the point where it's the main focus of my sex life now. My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks ) & enjoys the extra attention & orgasms she gets with other men.
I love my wife & daughter dearly, but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men. I have been present on every occasion except two, & I often join in, but just as often I wait until we're alone & we talk about it while we f***.
Apart from this particular diversion, we live normal lives.....work, pay bills,socialise with friends, etc. She is 29 & I am 44.
I'm not asking for moral judgements on our lifestyle, but would like to know how many other men have this same obsession & if they live it out.

you need to respect your wife man.

[Guest]

This is so true. My wife told me I would always have to be the last one to cum in her, - she wanted that little bit of dominant control, so we stumbled into the best possible scenario as a result. Watching her enjoy her lovers always kept me hard and hot and I came to love sloppy seconds and eating her afterwards. She also liked being able to give her full concentration to her lover, and sometimes asked me to wait downstairs until called.

We had one male friend that she really liked, and we all agreed he could stop by and take her whenever he wanted. It was such a rush to hear that unexpected knock on the door!

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This is very common, however, a word of caution for any men who wish to venture down that route, make sure that you ejaculate at the end as it is not a particularly pleasant feeling knowing that you are spent and then have to watch your wife/girlfriend continuing to be aroused by another guy. This started off as a fantasy for us as I used to love watching my wife flirt with other men, I used to tell her what I wanted her to do with this guys while we were having sex and it used to drive us both wild. In the end we agreed to take a guy home and it was fantastic as he finished and then I followed. The sex was magificent, however, on the third or 4th occasion I came to quickly and the other bloke took about 20 minutes to cum and I did not like it one little bit. We now have ground rules which mean she does him while increase her enjoyment and once he is finished the guest watches.

[scotlad1985]

Hey folks, im realy curious about this too, im 22 and my gf is 18 i wanna try it but dont want it to ruin our relationship, were both good looking and dont have any problem meeting ppl,

Ive been reading through the storys and ive gotta say there aint many ppl saying they tried it and it was bad,

I fantisize mostly about her with another guy but shes more into other women which i wouldnt complain about by any means just want to get some views from men/women thats tried it and would i be better with ppl i know or strangers?

thanks.

[Mr B]

Hey folks, im realy curious about this too, im 22 and my gf is 18 i wanna try it but dont want it to ruin our relationship, were both good looking and dont have any problem meeting ppl,

Ive been reading through the storys and ive gotta say there aint many ppl saying they tried it and it was bad,

I fantisize mostly about her with another guy but shes more into other women which i wouldnt complain about by any means just want to get some views from men/women thats tried it and would i be better with ppl i know or strangers?

thanks.

Personally i would say strangers. That way its a one off and you'll never see them again. Thats important because if your gf enjoys it, you will be happy knowing she won't be able to get a repeat unless its properly arranged, and if its a disaster, well you'll never see them again will you? The problem with doing it with someone you know means that your gf might see nothing wrong with shagging that bloke again without you knowing. She could be drunk one night and just think "well Ive shagged him before, my bf won't mind" Could lead to trouble.

[plz no name]

just to update you on whats is going on.mike the truck driver stopped by the other night and said he wanted to talk to both of us.he had been on the road a long time and had done a lot of thinking about us.mike said he had the hots for my wife a very long time,but we all were friends.he had many dreams of sleeping with my wife and then it happen.he said if it never happen again he would always remember the couple time he slept with her.
we then said we had been thinking about her having sex with another guy and then you came by.it worked out great because your our friend and we trust you.thats when she said that anytime we want we all should try a 3 some.well we were undress and she had the 2 of us guys allover her body.she came befor we even put anything in her but our tongues and fingers.well we did her then she would get us both hard and we went at it again.it was something new to have her suck the 2 of us at the same time and it was wild to be there and watch in detail how she f** him.i just could not believe how long mike could f*** her with out comin.on my best day i could only last 1/2 that time.we went all night long taking turns with her and then watching.she sucked and f*** as if she could not get enough of us.she must have drank the spunk from us a dozen times.then we took a break and even a shower but mike needed to get his truck load off or he would be in trouble.so i told him to stay there and f** my wife some more and i will take the truck over to unload and be back in 2 hours.i just could not stop thinking of what them 2 were doing while i was not there and i had a hard on the entire trip.but when i got back they both were asleep.so i went in my chair and i feel asleep there till about 4 hours later when i heard them. all in all it was the hottest 24 hours we ever had.we told mike to make sure he stops by anytime and we all can do it again.this is working out for all 3 of us and i hope it stays that way.

[WhiteTrash]

I can't believe the majority of replies are positive.

There are so many posts like this one, and I did ask for a new sub-section.

I love to hear stories and find out more about a male's POV.

Men are funny little creatures

[Guest]

We have been married for 8 years, & shortly after our daughter was born 6 years ago I began fantasising about my wife giving sex to other guys & it was such a turn on for me that it became almost my only fantasy.
I started talking to her about it during sex & it got us both really hot, & after a year or so of constant pleading & pressure, she agreed to let it happen so we contacted a guy through the net & met him at a motel & we both had sex with her & she was ok with it...even enjoyed it despite nerves.
That let the genie out of the bottle for me & it became a fixation, more accurately an obsession, to the point where it's the main focus of my sex life now. My wife has slowly come around to my way of thinking & is a willing participant & has learnt to relax (with a few drinks ) & enjoys the extra attention & orgasms she gets with other men.
I love my wife & daughter dearly, but every month or two I need her to give her body to another man/men. I have been present on every occasion except two, & I often join in, but just as often I wait until we're alone & we talk about it while we f***.
Apart from this particular diversion, we live normal lives.....work, pay bills,socialise with friends, etc. She is 29 & I am 44.
I'm not asking for moral judgements on our lifestyle, but would like to know how many other men have this same obsession & if they live it out.

You are teh douche

[Guest]

Hey folks, im realy curious about this too, im 22 and my gf is 18 i wanna try it but dont want it to ruin our relationship, were both good looking and dont have any problem meeting ppl,

Ive been reading through the storys and ive gotta say there aint many ppl saying they tried it and it was bad,

I fantisize mostly about her with another guy but shes more into other women which i wouldnt complain about by any means just want to get some views from men/women thats tried it and would i be better with ppl i know or strangers?

thanks.

So how's loving teh C*** treating you ?

[Jayman]

I too love my wife getting rid by other men, the thrill of spying on her is amazing. First caught her at a family chrisrmas party in the bedroom with my father, they were both drunk but clearly enjoying one another. I was clear he was inside her and she seemed to be loving it.

We spoke about it and to be honest it turned both of us on so much we got into experimenting. I have taken part in threesomes with her and other guys and sometimes I hide somewhere and watch her having sex with other men, then we have sex afterwards and the sex is explosive.